metal: Added missing lock in METAL_INTERNAL_PerformPendingDestroys.
Without this lock, a concurrent call to SDL_ReleaseGPUBuffer, SDL_ReleaseGPUTransferBuffer or SDL_ReleaseGPUTexture can cause one of the arrays to be reallocated while METAL_INTERNAL_PerformPendingDestroys is iterating over it, causing a bad day all around.
(cherry picked from commit 1492911c7d752e5dc73b836ca25490919b344508)